"I refuse to be plan B," says a friend. Do you feel that way too?
Have you come across situations where you knew you were the fallback option for your buddies, only cause their plan A couldn't make it?
It makes sense when you are given a heads-up that they have already made plans previously. But what if you knew you were being prioritise over something else although your request came ahead of the other party?
Example:
You asked your friend if he/she was available for dinner on Day X. He/she doesn't confirm on their availability. By the time you follow up, he/she tells you that unfortunately they have plans for the day already.
THE BEST PART IS - You knew your request came earlier!
Fine you get angry/annoyed/disappointed.. but the awkward part comes when your friend's plans get cancelled and they come back to you saying, "Hey my plans got cancelled, do you wanna do dinner?".........
Will you say yes to be being plan B?
